Hi, I’m Gbemi
My friends call me Gbemisoke
My clients call me Coach G
Welcome to my place in space
My personal bubbleverse of the universe
I’m a sweet girl, dedicated to chopping life, challenging the status quo, and finding practical ways to live out my faith.
I’m a wife to a great guy, and a mom to three amazing children.
(*who are simultaneously my greatest sources of delight and stress)
(*I wouldn't have it any other way)
(*why does a caveat need a caveat?)
(*why is... I'm just messing with you at this point, if you haven't figured that out yet)
One thing about me?
I prioritize enjoyment.
I’m currently in a season of my life called “Extra Time”, where I’m treating everyday on this side of heaven as a gift, an opportunity to continue what I’ve been sent here for, making sure I’m having fun while at it.
My life is a balancing act of loving God, loving myself and loving others, and I feel the most fulfilled when I’m able to find that, often elusive, sweet spot.
My absolute favorite place to be in the world?
At home, with my favorite people.
I like being indoors, chilling. I'm committed to being a human BEing, not a Human DOing, and if spending the whole day in bed wasn't bad for my health, I'd stay in my room all day.
What I like?
Peopling.
I'm extroverted and really really enjoy spending time with people. I find human behavior fascinating and I'm constantly observing and psychoanalyzing, trying to figure people out.
Other Things I like?
Selfies...
Carfies...
Getting dressed to go out...
Actually being out. With a drink in my hand of course...
Naija parties...
Trips...
Having a good time...
Getting invited to speak...
Fun fact you probably didn’t know about me?
I sew really well. I used to run a fashion brand called Gbemisoke, and I even made my own wedding dress, but the only thing I’m sewing these days are looong Twitter threads on whatever topics interest me.
Twitter is my favorite social media app and over there, they call me Gbemi from the Internet (GFTI).
Sparks of Enjoyment
Welcome to Sparks of Enjoyment, my monthly newsletter, a place where I document my thoughts, my life, and my processes.
Here, you'll find fresh perspectives on faith, relationships, parenting, and simply living joyfully.
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